Sunday, December 21, 2014

5th Grade Mid-Year Update


It's the end of our first semester in online school and we finished early.  We will be able to enjoy almost a month off for winter break. We are excited about getting ready for Christmas; making cookies and ornaments, watching our favorite holiday movies, and just relaxing at home for a while.  

So how did the semester go? If her grade book is any indication, it was a screaming success. She finished the semester with straights A's across the board and finished math with an A+. This is a big deal. Last year in her brick-and-mortar school, she started the year scoring 'advanced' in math. By the end of the year, she was on the low end of average. One of my fears with being her learning coach, is that my mathematical limitations would hold her back. I'm so glad to learn that is not the case!

Lil does have a teacher with Connections Academy and she is wonderful. Mrs. Brown is always available for questions or assistance. We've met with her at many school functions and field trips and she is a warm person and so much fun.  Mrs. Brown actually approached us to assist another family that is struggling.  It was wonderful to hear from the teacher that we are “a great family and a great example of how online public school should work”.

Lillian has met some good friends through her online school and it's nice to see her finding kids that she has so much in common with.  She attended a birthday party for her good friend Kylie and they enjoyed the field trips together.

The new semester starts in mid-January and we’re both looking forward to it.  But for now I’ll sit here in my robe and slippers and enjoy my coffee and let Lil sleep in and rest.  We’ve both earned it.

Tuesday, August 26, 2014

Patience, Grasshopper


“Rivers know this: there is no hurry. We shall get there some day.” 
― A.A. MilneWinnie-the-Pooh

We are well into the second week of online school and now I can tell you all about the Great Council of the Iroquois, mitochondria, and how to calculate mentally using compatible numbers.  If I work hard I can pass the fifth grade again along with Lil.


The first week was long as we were getting used to the computer program.  But we learned how to navigate the system and complete our lessons.  We also learned early on that it is best to start the day with math when our brains are fresh and we're less likely to lose patience with numbers and each other.


Lillian is sitting on top with an A overall and in her individual subjects.  I am impressed and amazed that she is so engaged in this new method of learning.  So far she has made the transition like a champ.  I see her skills climbing in ways they didn't in a traditional classroom.


She has developed an affinity for Social Studies and government. She wants to spend the most time on this subject and I am willing to oblige. Her fascination with history gives her a eyes a spark that doesn't happen with other subjects. Maybe she'll be headed for a future in public service and government.


The only thing I find frustrating in this venture so far, is that there isn't enough time to go as deeply into these lessons as we'd like. I want to read the whole page in the textbook. Not just skim it for the purpose of the lesson. I've tried teaching it the way we prefer, but then our school day goes longer and we will run out of the energy and attention span needed to focus on lessons later in the day.


Like anything else I suppose it will be a matter of finding a happy balance. I know that once we unlock the right combination of time, material and stamina, there will be no limits to her learning. But for now I must be patient.


It is only the second week after all.

Monday, August 11, 2014

Back to School ... At Home



School starts next week and Lil and I are looking forward to it with a whole new level of anticipation.  We have enrolled in Colorado Connections Academy, a virtual public school.  This means that she'll be learning with the same curriculum, but in the comfort of our own home.  This is a new experience for our family and we're determined to make it a success.

I will be her 'learning coach'.  I will keep her on track and facilitate all her daily classes and assignments. She will still have a public school teacher that provides the lessons and support by phone, live lesson, and email.  There are field trips and parties for social interaction and she'll still be in karate five nights a week.  The school has provided Lillian with a computer, the text books, and some pretty amazing supplies.

This week we are focusing on getting into a morning routine.

I walk the dogs from 6:00-6:30
We do our yoga workout for 'gym' from 6:30-7:00
Breakfast is from 7:00-7:30
Chores are from 7:30-7:45
Getting showered, dressed,and ready 7:45-8:00
We start classes at 8:00 

I'm sure there will be snags and the schedule will ultimately need some adjusting, but routine is important to stay on track. The flexibility is fantastic. It affords us the opportunity to have class at the library, outside when it's nice, or at the park. We can also have it on the couch in our pajamas if we choose.

I anticipate challenges and look forward to solving them with the great support team at CoCA, but knowing that Lillian is learning in a safe environment where she can advance at her own pace is reassuring.

I will be sharing our experience on this blog to let everyone know how we're coming along. Wish us luck!

Tuesday, October 8, 2013

The Great American Cop-out


Over the past week I have watched social media blow up over the government shutdown. Everyone is upset and rightfully so.  But what bothers me more than anything is the ignorance of the general public on how government is supposed to function.  

Successfully passing a high school civics class is required to receive a high school diploma.  Now I don't claim to remember everything I learned in high school, but I do remember my Social studies teacher engaging us in many discussions about our government.  

Some key facts about the way our nation was set up.

1.  There are three branches of government to ensure a checks and balances system.  This means that no one person can rule all and make our country a dictatorship.  Each branch is equal.

Here are the three branches of government:

            a) Legislative - The United States Congress - These are elected by the people to represent them in Washington.  The people elect those that best represent the issues that are most important to them.  They write legislation and vote on potential laws.  There are two divisions of the legislative branch.  The House of Representatives and the Senate.

            b) Executive - This is the President of the United States - Also an elected civil servant, among other tasks, he/she holds the power to sign bills into law, he/she also holds the power to veto or 'cancel' bills at his/her discretion.  A veto can be overridden if the house and senate both pass an override.

            c) Judicial - This is the United States Supreme Court - This branch is comprised of judges that were appointed to the bench by the President of the United States and vetted by congress. These officials are chosen by their ability to interpret the United States Constitution and render judgments fairly.  The court hears and decides cases of significant value to the nation. There is no higher judgment in the land.

2.  A bill must be passed by both the Legislative and Executive branches to become a law.  If the constitutionality is questioned in court, the law may make it up the judicial chain and be heard before the United States Supreme Court who will render a judgment on whether a law has merit and will stand.

3.  Our country was set up by our founding fathers as a "government of the people, by the people, and for the people".  This gives the power to the citizens of the United States to hire elected officials to run the country the way we see fit.  If we don't like how we are being represented in Congress, we can remove those non-performing representatives by electing someone else to better represent us.

4.  The majority rules. - This is why we have elections.  The candidate with the most votes wins the election. 

5.  The United States Congress is responsible for passing a budget to fund the country.  If there is no budget, the people that are employed by the government are out of work or work without pay.  This includes the United States Military, unless provisions are passed otherwise, as we've seen President Obama do.

Why does all this matter?  Our federal government has been shutdown by congress for the past week.  The republican-led congress has issued an ultimatum to the president to either de-fund or dismantle the Affordable Care Act, (which is also referred to as Obamacare by the way.  It is the same thing for those of you who don't know or appear on Jimmy Kimmel) or they will not pass a budget and close the government.  They have also threatened not to raise the debt ceiling.  This would cause United States to default on it’s debts, damaging our economy that is still recovering.

This means that children are without nutritional assistance and school.  Veterans are without the care they need and deserve.  Death benefits to families of soldiers killed in action have stopped.  American families are left without a paycheck to pay their rent or bills.  Cancer research, stopped.  And yes, Jan Brewer, national parks are closed.  All because of a political hissy-fit by the Republican party of cheap tricks, scare tactics, and bad theatrics.

The Affordable Care Act IS LAW.  It was passed by all three branches of government.  (see #1 above)

It is not up for discussion, compromise, or gutting by people who don't like it.  This isn't how our system is designed to work.  If a party does not agree with a law, they can campaign and win an election.  By reelecting President Barrack Obama to the office of President of the United States, the people of this land confirmed their approval of this legislation.

Now here's what I find hard to digest.  The people that scream loudest and longest about “the evil that is Obamacare” are usually the people that don't know diddly about the legislative framework of our constitution.  You don't have to be a lawyer.   You don't have to hold a degree.  You just have to educate yourself.  If you don't, you are at the mercy of the crazy, greedy, and unethical asshats that hold office.

I have no patience for people who claim,  "I'm not a political person", "I don't follow politics",  "They're all the same",  "It makes no difference anyway".  Ironically, these people are the first to bitch about things that don't go their way.

For the love of our nation, read the constitution.  Read a civics book.  Learn the truth about the clowns that YOU have elected to congress, so the next time you step into that voting booth you can make an educated decision.

As a citizen of the United States, it is not only your right, but also your responsibility.

Friday, August 16, 2013

Why Sheena Needs to Get Up Earlier



Friday morning started like any other.  The alarm goes off, we press snooze.  Nine minutes pass.  The alarm goes off.  We press snooze.  Nine more minutes pass.  I got up and convinced Sheena that she really needs to get ready for work.  I lurched toward the kitchen to fetch the anti-zombie juice, more frequently referred to as coffee.

In an attempt to live a healthier lifestyle, Sheena has been eating breakfast.  After dressing, she tried to prepare oatmeal with honey in our galley kitchen while Lillian emptied the dishwasher.  This should not be a difficult task.

1.       Pour oatmeal in bowl.
2.       Drizzle honey over oatmeal.
3.       Pour milk.


This morning it went more like this.

1.       Pour oatmeal in bowl.
2.       Reach for the honey and drop it out of the cabinet onto the edge of said bowl.
3.       Wonder what the fuck happened to cause the oatmeal explosion.


I heard the “explosion” and came around the corner to see what happened.  I saw the oatmeal with honey in places I never knew it could be; on the upper cabinets, on the side of the refrigerator, on Lillian, on the dog, and most amusing, on the front of Sheena’s pants.

Me:  “What happened?” 

Grumpy Gus:  “I don’t know!  Get me the broom or something!”

I know Sheena’s not a morning person and she’s clearly not awake, so I buttoned my lip and went to fetch the broom from the porch.  Grumbling under my breath at her abrasiveness, I grabbed the broom and muttered to myself, “It’s ‘Get me the broom, please’.”  Clearly I was not awake either, because on my way back into the house I missed the cement step and down I went like London Bridge. 

Sweet Lil was the first to show concern.  Perhaps it was because, as she said, “I saw your legs and butt fly up in the air and you crashed down.”  She came running to see if I was okay, followed by a now jolted-awake Sheena.

Oh, it’s funny now.  Even with a bruised and swollen rug-burned elbow, a scraped calf and shin, and back spasms.

But really.  Sheena needs to get up earlier.



Saturday, August 3, 2013

The Iron Curtain Has Returned, and is Covered in Rainbow Blood



Would you be surprised to know that readers of my blog in Russia are second only to readers here in the United States? At least they were until Russia’s government adopted a federal bill banning the distribution of "propaganda of non-traditional sexual relations”. Russia has yet to clarify what constitutes ‘propaganda’, but apparently my blog falls into that category.

Yes. My humble little blog has gone dark to the Russian people. I guess they are afraid that Russian youths will read my words and instantly convert to a life of persecution by society, and prosecution by the government. Wow. I never knew that my words could be so powerful.

First, I have only written one post regarding LGBT issues. Second, this was a post regarding LGBT rights here in the United States. There are many things left to achieve in the United States for gays and lesbians. But I can’t imagine living in a place where violence against homosexuals is not only condoned, but encouraged.

I am sickened and saddened by the governmental discrimination, not to mention the violence that is happening to my LGBT brothers and sisters in Russia.

If I could speak to you I would tell you that you that the rest of the world has not forgotten you. I wish you could read this. I wish I could do more.

В знак солидарности с моими российскими братьями и сестрами

Tuesday, June 25, 2013



From Stonewall to DOMA

The first time I marched in a Gay Pride parade I was a baby, all of about 19 years old.  I felt strong, brave, and my pride was bursting as I walked the parade route, winding down Denver’s East Colfax holding a rainbow flag that streamed from a pole bigger than I was.  I shouted and chanted alongside my GLBT brothers and sisters.  “We’re here! We’re QUEER!  GET USED TO IT!”  The crowd was large and the sweltering sun beat down on us.

The year was 1991 and our local gay community defeated a Denver ballot initiative to exclude gays and lesbians from city anti-discrimination ordinances.  However, our success was shoved to the wayside with the passage of Amendment 2 the following election year, making it legal in the state of Colorado to discriminate against homosexuals.
 
It felt like worms in the pit of my stomach.  My young mind couldn't understand how people could be so mean to people they don’t even know.  I've carried this disappointment for the last twenty-one years.  It doesn't hurt any less that I’m older.  I've just gotten used to it.
 
Conservatives have run their campaigns based on defeating the “gay agenda”.   The gay agenda.  Ha.  I’m gonna let you in on a little secret.  The so called “gay agenda” is this:  Equality and the pursuit of happiness.  Isn't that what our constitution guarantees?
 
My wife and I pay our taxes every year.   But because of the Defense of Marriage Act, we don’t get the same benefits that a heterosexual couple would receive.  We don’t get to file our taxes jointly; our health insurance isn't charged the way a straight couple is charged.  That isn't even the half of it.  Same-sex military couples can now legally fight and die for our country but can’t even collect survivor benefits.  Where is the support for our troops that conservatives claim to love?  Where is the love in any of this?

I am proud to call the GLBT community my family.  We have come a long, long way since that night at the Stonewall Inn in 1969, where those brave men, women, and drag queens said, NO MORE.  They linked arms singing and formed a kick line in the street, and for this they were met with police batons that were cracked against their skulls.  Think about that for a moment.  They were beaten bloody for standing up for themselves and their own human dignity.

We will continue to fight for equality.

On this, the eve of the Supreme Court ruling on the constitutionality of DOMA and Proposition 8, I have the same awful worms in the pit of my stomach.  I still want to believe that justice prevails in our great country, but honestly, I've just gotten used to the disappointment.